This devotional was written by Kelly McFadden and appeared on HomeWord’s daily devotional
For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven together in the depths of the earth, your eyes saw my unformed body. All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.â€”Psalm 139:13-16
In November of last year, a young girl named Courtney suddenly passed away a few days before her 20th birthday due to complications from a bone marrow transplant. I never met or knew this radiant young woman, but her story has touched me deeply. The familyâ€™s online journal tells a story of grief, confusion, courage and, above all, thankfulness, faith and love. Below is an excerpt Courtneyâ€™s mom wrote in the journal five days after, as she put it, her youngest daughter earned her wings.
â€œI have spent much of the past 24 hours looking back on Courtneyâ€™s life and the view of her life that I was lucky enough to get a glimpse of. As a very young girl, Courtney was really a Mamaâ€™s girl, always by my side – she truly was my babyâ€¦When I first learned that Courtney had cancer in Sept. 2000, I thought to myself, she is such a little girl – so fragile. I wasnâ€™t sure that she could handle what she was about to be forced to. But I was wrong, she was so strong – she never asked why, she never felt sorry for herself – not in 2000 and not in 2006. She accepted her life and made it beautifulâ€¦As a mom, who is mourning her daughter, I know that Courtney would want me to pass along a few words of advice. Love your children (and family) like there is no tomorrow – hug them tighter, smile at them brighter and be sure to tell them you love them as often as you can.â€
SOURCE: Family blog
Each person was made special, delicately woven by his or her Maker. God makes no mistake and knows the plans He has for us and our bodies. One of the beauties of this familyâ€™s journal is that they understand this. Courtneyâ€™s family knows that God has a plan for her even when her body, that He created, got too weak and sick to be here. The family misses her terribly, but they know she served Godâ€™s purpose on earth and theyâ€™re thankful for the gift of their time with her.
Courtney was a girl who never felt sorry for herself and accepted her life and made it beautiful. None of us has the promise of tomorrow. You do have this promise: You have a Maker who made no mistake in how He created you. He made you the right size, shape, temperament and personality. My suggestion? Make sure you are making your life beautiful using what God gave you, like Courtney did.
1. You have been given the exact right genetic make-up. How can you use what God has given you to make your life beautiful, no matter the circumstance?
2. Who in your life do you need to hug a little tighter?
Ephesians 2:10; Philippians 4:13-14; James 4:14-15