As I mentioned in my previous post, I listened to one of Keller’s marriage sermons 3 times in 2 weeks.Â It’s a powerful message.Â I’ve uploaded it so you can listen to it (link below).Â This is only one in the series of 9.Â You can purchase the entire series at Redeemer’s online sermon store for $22.50 (all 9 sermons in mp3 format).
I chose to share some quotes which are obviously out of context … so listen to the message to get the full understanding of each quote
“…(many things) cloud our understanding of marriage.”
“Marriage is not something that man made up in a cave.”
“Self-centerednes is the main problem in any marriage.Â Self centeredness is the main enemy of any marriage …Â self centeredness is the main cancer in any marriage.”
“You can decide to treat your own flaws as more serious than the others and treat the needs of the other as more important … Regardless of what the other person does.”
“You can say ‘I’m going to work on my self-centeredness’ regardless of what the other person does”
“Essence of marriage is a promise.Â 10 years from now I’ll be there.Â 20 years from now I’ll be there.Â It’s a promise.”
“The purpose of marriage is companionship.”
“No one else is more important than that relationship (with your spouse)”
“Marriage has to be #1″
“Whether you’re married or not .. we see that it’s our pride and self centeredness which can only be dealt with the gospel.Â And the gospel is ‘you are more wicked than you ever dared believe and more loved than ever dared hope.’Â It does the 1-2 on your ego.”
- Download Message 1 in the Marriage Series (click to listen; right click and ‘save target’ to download)
Ok.Â I’m going to upload the 2nd message too because it’s that good.Â If you like both then download the entire series at http://sermons.redeemer.com/store/index.cfm?product=18279.
- Download Message 2 in the Marriage Series (click to listen; right click and ‘save target’ to download)
Recently I finished the book Reason For God by Timothy Keller.Â Keller is a pastor in New York City at Redeemer Church.Â His book is a challenging read that I definitely suggest you pick up.Â He does a great job looking at several questions and doubts about the Christian faith including (but not limited to):
- Why does God allow suffering in the world?
- How could a loving God send people to Hell?
- Why isnâ€™t Christianity more inclusive?
- How can one religion be â€œrightâ€ and the others â€œwrongâ€?
- Why have so many wars been fought in the name of God?
He addresses each doubt and explains each reason. He uses stories, philosophy, reasoning to explain each.Â It’s a wonderful, thought-provoking read for both believers in Christ as well as skeptics.Â Â The book motivated me to research other teachings and sermons from Keller and here’s what I found:
- 374 sermons, interviews and other videos on YouTube
- A sermon store on Redeemer.com that seemed more exhaustive than iTunes theology section
- A half dozen or so free sermons including “reason for God”, “the Prodigal Son”, “Parenting”, “Stewardship”, “Suffering and Tragedy” as well as others
- All time favorite sermon series include: Marriage, Cultivating a Healthy Marriage Part 1, Proverbs, Friendship, Practical Grace, The Trouble with Christianity, In Christ Jesus, and Christ: Our Treasury.
I downloaded a few of the Marriage sermons.Â I’ll write a separate post with some notes from it.Â It was an excellent sermon that I listened to 3 times in two weeks.Â Anyway, if you have a moment on the computer to listen to a sermon or have a mp3 player, take a few moments to download and listen.
Below are the lyrics and a video from a Third Day song “Cry out to Jesus”.Â It’s a powerful song that I’ve listened to several times.Â I thought I’d share it …
To everyone who’s lost someone they love
Long before it was their time
You feel like the days you had were not enough when you said goodbye
And to all of the people with burdens and pains
Keeping you back from your life
You believe that there’s nothing and there is no one
Who can make it right
There is hope for the helpless
Rest for the weary
Love for the broken heart
There is grace and forgiveness
Mercy and healing
He’ll meet you wherever you are
Cry out to Jesus, Cry out to Jesus
For the marriage that’s struggling just to hang on
They lost all of their faith in love
They’ve done all they can to make it right again
Still it’s not enough
For the ones who can’t break the addictions and chains
You try to give up but you come back again
Just remember that you’re not alone in your shame
And your suffering
When your lonely
And it feels like the whole world is falling on you
You just reach out, you just cry out to
Jesus Cry to Jesus
To the widow who suffers from being alone
Wiping the tears from her eyes
For the children around the world without a home
Say a prayer tonight
As many of you know Kelly writes devotionals for HomeWord, today I received this one in my inbox.Â I’m not sure when she wrote it but it’s very timely considering economic environment.
This devotional was written byÂ Kelly McFaddenÂ
Timely advice is lovely, like golden apples in a silver basket.
â€” Proverbs 25:11 (NLT)
As a junior in high school, I was devastated when I was cut from the top volleyball team and sent to the second team.Â I felt disappointed, embarrassed and dejected.Â That evening, I spoke with a friend who passed on these words of wisdom, â€œItâ€™s not how far you fall, but how high you bounce back that matters.â€Â I wrote the quote on my mirror and committed to doing my best for this new team, instead of sulking over my personal loss.Â Instead of continuing to fall and spiral, I committed to bounce back.
What I learned that day is that what happens to me in life doesnâ€™t count as much as how I react to those things.Â I had a choice the day I was cut from the team: I could wallow in misery and quit the team, or I could choose to fight through my circumstances and work hard to improve.Â Each day, choices like these present themselves.Â When people are cruel, I can choose to accept their apology or let my bitterness grow.Â When I am treated unfairly, I can vengefully plot a way to get even, or I can seek the Lordâ€™s wisdom and demonstrate patience as He shows me what to do.Â When I am fired from a job, I can learn from why things did not work or I can blame everyone else around me for my misfortune and never learn, grow or change.Â When I am congratulated for a job well done, I can either pat myself on the back or thank the Lord for providing me with the skills to succeed.
Life throws different circumstances our way every day, both good and bad.Â Wherever you are in your life, it is important to remember that people are watching and looking to see how you are living your life.Â You will long be remembered, not only for what happened to you in your life, but for how you handled lifeâ€™s circumstances. When those circumstances cause you to fall, I challenge you to bounce back!
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1.Â Think about a time in your life when you have reacted well to a disappointing circumstance and another time when you have reacted poorly.Â Why do you think you reacted the way you did in those circumstances?
2.Â Why are our reactions as Christians so important?Â How can you help make sure you are someone who bounces back?
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